Delaware Reverse Mortgage: HECM Loans for Homeowners 62+ in DE & MD (2026 Guide)
AI Overview: A Delaware reverse mortgage is a federally insured HECM (Home Equity Conversion Mortgage) loan that allows homeowners age 62 and older in Delaware (and Maryland) to convert a portion of home equity into tax-free cash without making monthly mortgage payments. The borrower keeps title to the home, and the loan is repaid when the home is sold, the last borrower moves out permanently, or passes away. The 2026 HECM maximum claim amount is $1,249,125 nationwide. Under Delaware Code Title 5, § 2244, a Delaware reverse mortgage cannot be finalized until the lender receives written certification from an independent housing counselor. Current as of May 2026.
By John R. Thomas, NMLS #38783 | Branch Manager and Mortgage Loan Officer | Primary Residential Mortgage, Inc. | 302-703-0727
If you own a home in Delaware or Maryland and you are 62 or older, a reverse mortgage may be one of the most powerful — and most misunderstood — financial tools available to you. This guide covers what a reverse mortgage actually is, how HECM loans work, who qualifies, what it really costs, what the myths get wrong, and how homeowners across Wilmington, Newark, Dover, Baltimore, Columbia, and Silver Spring are using them to fund retirement without selling their homes. If you want the 2026 numbers in detail, see the dedicated 2026 HECM reverse mortgage loan limits page.
Quick Answer: What Is a Delaware Reverse Mortgage?
A Delaware reverse mortgage is an FHA-insured HECM loan for homeowners age 62+ that converts home equity into tax-free cash with no required monthly mortgage payment. Delaware Code Title 5 § 2244 requires written certification from an independent housing counselor before the loan can be finalized.
Who: Homeowners age 62 and older in Delaware or Maryland with sufficient home equity and the ability to pay property taxes, homeowners insurance, and home maintenance.
What: An FHA-insured HECM (Home Equity Conversion Mortgage) that converts a portion of your home equity into tax-free cash, with no required monthly mortgage payment.
How much: Typically 40% to 60% of home value, depending on the youngest borrower’s age, current interest rates, and home value up to the 2026 HECM cap of $1,249,125.
Repayment: The loan is repaid when the home is sold, the last borrower moves out permanently, or passes away. Heirs typically have up to 12 months to settle.
Required: HUD-approved reverse mortgage counseling before application, plus a HUD financial assessment to confirm you can maintain taxes, insurance, and the property.
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What Happens After You Call?
1. Initial conversation (15-30 minutes). We discuss your situation, your retirement goals, current home equity, any existing mortgage balance, and whether a reverse mortgage may be the right fit. No commitment, no pressure.
2. Personalized estimate. Based on your age, home value, and current rates, we show you approximately how much you may be eligible to access — typically 40% to 60% of home value, subject to underwriting.
3. HUD-approved counseling. Before you apply, federal law requires a counseling session with a HUD-approved agency (typically by phone, 60-90 minutes). We provide a list of approved agencies.
4. Application and financial assessment. If you choose to move forward, we complete the application, order the FHA appraisal, and run the HUD financial assessment to confirm you can maintain taxes, insurance, and property upkeep.
5. Closing and funding. Most HECM loans close within 30 to 60 days, depending on appraisal scheduling, counseling completion, and any title or property issues. You receive your funds based on your chosen payout structure (lump sum, line of credit, monthly payments, or combination).
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What Is a Reverse Mortgage (HECM Loan) in Delaware and Maryland?
Quick Answer: A reverse mortgage in Delaware and Maryland is a federally insured HECM loan that allows homeowners age 62 and older to convert a portion of home equity into tax-free cash without making monthly mortgage payments. The borrower keeps title and ownership of the home, and the loan is repaid when the home is sold, the last borrower moves out permanently, or passes away. In both Delaware and Maryland, most reverse mortgages are FHA-insured Home Equity Conversion Mortgages, commonly called HECM loans. These follow federal HUD and FHA guidelines, including borrower age, HUD-approved counseling, eligible property types, and the annual HECM maximum claim amount.
Reverse mortgages are not a one-size-fits-all solution. For some Delaware and Maryland homeowners, a HECM solves a real cash-flow problem and lets them stay in the home they love. For others, a Delaware HELOC, a cash-out refinance, or even downsizing makes more sense. The right answer depends on your age, your home value, your retirement income, your long-term plans for the home, and what you want to leave to heirs. That is the conversation this guide — and a no-pressure call with John Thomas — is designed to help you work through.
Not sure if a reverse mortgage is right for you? In this 6-minute video, John Thomas walks through everything Delaware and Maryland homeowners age 62 and older need to know — what a reverse mortgage actually is, how the HECM loan works, what it costs, and what questions to ask before making any decision.
How Does a Reverse Mortgage Work?

A reverse mortgage works in the opposite direction of a traditional, or forward, mortgage. With a forward mortgage, you make monthly payments to the lender and your loan balance goes down over time as your equity goes up. With a reverse mortgage, the lender pays you — either as a lump sum, monthly payments, a growing line of credit, or some combination — and the loan balance goes up over time as accrued interest, mortgage insurance premiums, and fees are added on top of the principal you have drawn.
You keep title to your home for as long as you live in it as your primary residence and you continue paying property taxes, homeowners insurance (and flood insurance if applicable), HOA dues, and basic home maintenance. The loan becomes due and payable when the last borrower on the loan permanently moves out of the home, sells the home, or passes away. At that point, the home is typically sold to repay the loan, and any remaining equity belongs to you or your heirs.
HECM reverse mortgages are non-recourse loans. That means if the loan balance ends up exceeding the home’s value when the loan is repaid, neither you nor your heirs are personally liable for the difference. FHA mortgage insurance — which you pay into through the upfront and annual MIP — covers the shortfall. Heirs cannot be pursued for the difference, and they cannot lose other assets to satisfy the loan.
Delaware Reverse Mortgage Requirements in 2026: Who Qualifies?

To qualify for a HECM reverse mortgage in Delaware or Maryland, you generally need to meet the following federal HUD requirements:
- Age 62 or older. You must be at least 62 at the time of closing. If two borrowers are on the loan, the lender uses the youngest borrower’s age to calculate the loan amount, which generally produces a smaller proceeds amount than a single older borrower would receive.
- Primary residence. The home must be your primary residence. Vacation homes, second homes, and pure investment properties do not qualify for HECM.
- Sufficient home equity. Most homeowners need substantial equity — typically 50% or more — though the exact amount depends on your age, current interest rates, and home value. Any existing mortgage balance must be paid off at closing, generally using HECM proceeds.
- HUD-approved counseling. Before applying, federal law (24 CFR 206.41) requires that you complete reverse mortgage counseling with a HUD-approved counseling agency. Delaware adds a state-law layer: under Delaware Code Title 5, § 2244, a Delaware lender cannot finalize a reverse mortgage loan until it has received written certification from an independent housing counselor attesting that the borrower has received counseling covering the topics required under 12 U.S.C. § 1715z-20(f). Counseling is typically done by phone and takes 60 to 90 minutes; Delaware does not mandate in-person counseling, so most borrowers complete it from home.
- HUD financial assessment. Since 2015 (HUD Mortgagee Letter 2014-22), lenders must conduct a financial assessment to confirm you have the income and credit history to maintain property taxes, homeowners insurance, and home upkeep. If the assessment identifies concerns, a Life Expectancy Set-Aside (LESA) may be required.
- Property meets FHA standards. The home must pass an FHA appraisal and meet HUD’s minimum property standards. Required repairs identified by the FHA appraiser may need to be completed.
There is no minimum credit score requirement for a HECM in the way there is for a forward FHA loan, but credit history is reviewed as part of the financial assessment. Income is also reviewed — not to confirm you can make a mortgage payment (you will not have one) but to confirm you can keep up with taxes, insurance, and basic property obligations going forward.
What Types of Homes Are Eligible for a Reverse Mortgage?
HECM reverse mortgages are available on most owner-occupied primary residences in Delaware and Maryland, including:
- Single-family detached homes (most common)
- Two- to four-unit homes, as long as the borrower occupies one of the units as their primary residence
- FHA-approved condominiums. The condo project must be on the FHA-approved condo list, or in some cases, may be eligible for FHA single-unit approval. We check this upfront before you commit to anything.
- Townhomes (typically eligible as long as the structure meets FHA property standards)
- Manufactured homes meeting FHA requirements (titled as real estate, on a permanent foundation, built after June 15, 1976 with a HUD label, generally double-wide or larger)
Properties that are typically not eligible include vacation homes, second homes, pure investment properties, cooperatives (co-ops), and single-wide manufactured homes. Mixed-use properties may or may not qualify depending on the percentage of the property used for non-residential purposes.
What Are the 2026 Reverse Mortgage Loan Limits?
For loans with FHA case numbers assigned on or after January 1, 2026, the HECM maximum claim amount is $1,249,125 nationwide, including all Delaware and Maryland counties. This is up from $1,209,750 in 2025 — a 3.3% year-over-year increase. Unlike forward FHA loan limits, which vary by county, the HECM limit is one consistent national cap. Current as of May 2026.
The maximum claim amount sets the highest home value FHA will use when calculating your proceeds. If your home appraises for $1,500,000, FHA still only uses $1,249,125 in the calculation. For homeowners with higher-value properties that exceed FHA limits, proprietary jumbo reverse mortgage products may be available — these are not FHA-insured but can extend access to higher loan amounts. We can walk through both options if your home value puts you near the cap.
How much you actually receive depends on a combination of (1) the youngest borrower’s age, (2) current expected interest rates, (3) your home’s appraised value up to the FHA cap, and (4) the payout structure you choose. For a typical Delaware or Maryland borrower in their early 70s with a $500,000 home, available proceeds often land somewhere in the $200,000 to $300,000 range, though the exact number varies meaningfully with rates and age. For a more detailed breakdown by age and home value, see John Thomas’s dedicated guide: 2026 HECM Reverse Mortgage Loan Limits.
Educational Reference: Estimated HECM Proceeds by Age and Home Value
Estimate only — not a quote. The figures below are illustrative ranges for educational reference. Actual HECM proceeds depend on the youngest borrower’s exact age at closing, current expected interest rates on the day your case number is issued, your chosen payout structure (lump sum, line of credit, term, tenure), any existing mortgage that must be paid off, and other loan-level inputs. For a personalized estimate, call John Thomas at 302-703-0727. Current as of May 2026.
HECM proceeds are calculated using the Principal Limit Factor (PLF), which combines the youngest borrower’s age with the expected interest rate to produce the percentage of home value available to the borrower. Older borrowers and lower expected rates produce higher PLFs (more proceeds); younger borrowers and higher expected rates produce lower PLFs. The table below shows approximate proceeds at common combinations of age and home value, before paying off any existing mortgage and before closing costs.
| Youngest Borrower Age | $300,000 Home | $500,000 Home | $750,000 Home | $1,000,000 Home |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 62 | ~$120,000 to $150,000 | ~$200,000 to $250,000 | ~$300,000 to $375,000 | ~$400,000 to $500,000 |
| 67 | ~$135,000 to $165,000 | ~$225,000 to $275,000 | ~$340,000 to $415,000 | ~$450,000 to $550,000 |
| 72 | ~$150,000 to $180,000 | ~$250,000 to $300,000 | ~$375,000 to $450,000 | ~$500,000 to $600,000 |
| 77 | ~$165,000 to $195,000 | ~$275,000 to $325,000 | ~$415,000 to $490,000 | ~$550,000 to $650,000 |
| 82 | ~$180,000 to $210,000 | ~$300,000 to $350,000 | ~$450,000 to $525,000 | ~$600,000 to $700,000 |
How to read this table: Find the row closest to the youngest borrower’s age. Find the column closest to your home’s appraised value. The cell shows the approximate range of total available proceeds before any existing mortgage payoff and before closing costs (FHA upfront MIP, origination fee, third-party costs). If you owe $100,000 on your current mortgage, that $100,000 must be paid off from your HECM proceeds at closing, reducing what’s left for you. Closing costs may be financed into the loan but also reduce net available proceeds.
Real-world example. A 72-year-old single borrower with a $500,000 Delaware home and a $120,000 existing mortgage might have approximately $250,000 to $300,000 in total available HECM proceeds, of which $120,000 immediately pays off the existing mortgage, leaving an estimated $130,000 to $180,000 in net proceeds (before closing costs financed into the loan) — available as a lump sum, line of credit, monthly payments, or combination. The exact figure can swing meaningfully with current interest rates and the chosen payout structure, which is why a personalized analysis matters.
For a complete, personalized estimate based on your exact age, home value, current rates, and existing mortgage, call John Thomas at 302-703-0727 or schedule a 30-minute consultation.
Reverse Mortgage Costs Explained

Reverse mortgages have closing costs that are typically higher than a forward mortgage, mainly because of FHA mortgage insurance. The good news is that most of these costs can be financed into the loan, so you generally do not need to bring large sums of cash to closing. Here is what to expect:
- Upfront FHA Mortgage Insurance Premium (MIP). Currently 2% of the home value or HECM maximum claim amount (whichever is lower). This protects the FHA insurance fund and, in turn, you and your heirs — it is what makes the loan non-recourse. Generally financed into the loan.
- Annual FHA MIP. 0.5% of the outstanding loan balance per year. This accrues on the loan over time rather than being paid out-of-pocket.
- Origination fee. Capped by HUD at the greater of $2,500 or 2% of the first $200,000 of home value plus 1% of any value above that, with a maximum of $6,000 total. Generally financed into the loan.
- Third-party closing costs. FHA appraisal, title insurance, recording fees, credit report, flood certification, and similar standard third-party costs.
- Servicing fee (if applicable). Some lenders charge a monthly servicing fee (capped at $30 or $35 depending on loan type); many lenders waive this. Confirm with your specific lender.
- HUD-approved counseling fee. Typically $125 to $200, paid to the counseling agency directly. This is usually the only out-of-pocket cost before closing.
- Interest accrual. Interest is charged on the outstanding loan balance, with rates that may be fixed (for lump-sum payouts) or adjustable (for line-of-credit and term/tenure payouts). Interest is added to the loan balance — you do not pay it out of pocket — which is why the balance grows over time. Rates change daily; call for the current rate.
Because most costs are financed into the loan, the practical question is not “how much do I have to pay today” — it is “how does my equity look over time?” That is exactly the math we walk through in a consultation, side by side with your alternatives.
Reverse Mortgage Pros and Cons
A reverse mortgage is a useful tool in some retirement situations and the wrong tool in others. Here is an honest look at both sides.
| Pros | Cons |
|---|---|
| No required monthly mortgage payments (you must still pay taxes, insurance, and upkeep) | Closing costs are typically higher than a forward mortgage, mainly due to FHA upfront MIP |
| Proceeds are loan proceeds (not income) and generally tax-free | Loan balance grows over time as interest and MIP accrue, reducing equity left to heirs |
| Non-recourse — you and your heirs cannot owe more than the home is worth at repayment | May affect needs-based government benefits like Medicaid or SSI (consult a tax/benefits advisor) |
| You keep title to the home and can leave it to heirs (they can sell, refinance, or deed it back) | If you fail to pay property taxes, insurance, or maintain the home, the loan can go into default |
| Line of credit option grows over time — unused credit increases at the same rate as your loan rate | If you plan to move within a few years, costs may not be recovered through the benefit period |
| Multiple payout structures — lump sum, line of credit, monthly payments, or combination | Eligible non-borrowing spouses under 62 are protected from foreclosure but cannot access additional proceeds after the borrowing spouse passes |
Reverse Mortgage vs HELOC vs Cash-Out Refinance
Quick Comparison: Here is how a reverse mortgage compares to a Delaware HELOC and a cash-out refinance based on payments, qualification, and risk. If you are 62 or older, all three may be options worth comparing. If you are under 62, the reverse mortgage is off the table and the comparison narrows to HELOC vs cash-out refi.
| Feature | Reverse Mortgage (HECM) | HELOC | Cash-Out Refinance |
|---|---|---|---|
| Monthly P&I Payments | Not required | Required during repayment | Required |
| Age Requirement | 62 or older | No age requirement | No age requirement |
| Credit / Income Underwriting | Flexible — no FICO floor, financial assessment for taxes/insurance capacity | Typically 640+ FICO, full income documentation, max DTI | Typically 620+ FICO, full income documentation, max DTI |
| Loan Balance Over Time | Grows (interest accrues) | Goes down with each payment | Goes down with each payment |
| Non-Recourse Protection | Yes (FHA-insured) | No | No |
| Closing Costs | Higher (FHA upfront MIP) — generally financed into loan | Lower | Moderate |
| Best For | 62+ homeowners wanting tax-free cash without monthly payments and planning to stay in the home | Homeowners with steady income wanting flexible access to equity with shorter time horizon | Homeowners wanting one lump sum at a fixed rate, willing to replace their first mortgage |
What About My Heirs?
This is the question that comes up in nearly every reverse mortgage conversation, and the answer is straightforward: your heirs have options, and they cannot be left owing more than the home is worth.
When the last borrower passes away or permanently moves out, the loan becomes due. Heirs typically have up to 12 months (with potential extensions) to settle it, and they generally have three choices:
- Sell the home and pay off the loan. If the home sells for more than the loan balance, the remaining equity goes to the heirs. This is the most common path.
- Refinance the loan and keep the home. Heirs can pay off the reverse mortgage by refinancing into a traditional forward mortgage if they qualify, or pay the balance directly with other funds.
- Deed the home back to the lender. If the loan balance exceeds the home’s value, heirs can use a deed in lieu of foreclosure to transfer the property to the lender and walk away with no further financial obligation. Because HECM is non-recourse, FHA insurance covers the shortfall. Heirs are not personally liable.
Even in the third scenario, heirs can sometimes still purchase the home from the estate at 95% of current appraised value — a useful option if the home is in a family for sentimental reasons. This is one of the conversations we walk through with you and, where appropriate, with your adult children, before you finalize anything.
You do not have to make this decision alone. Many of the homeowners we work with bring an adult child, family member, or financial advisor to the consultation — either in person at the Newark office or by phone. Talking through the long-term equity impact with the people who will eventually inherit the home is often the most useful part of the process.
Non-Borrowing Spouse Protections
If you are married and one spouse is under 62, your spouse may still be protected from foreclosure if you pass away first or move out permanently. This is one of the most misunderstood parts of HECM — and one that has changed meaningfully in the last decade.
Under HUD Mortgagee Letters 2014-07 and 2015-15 (and the September 19, 2017 final regulation), an eligible non-borrowing spouse (NBS) can remain in the home and defer repayment of the loan after the borrowing spouse passes away or permanently moves out, subject to meeting HUD deferral conditions. These include:
- The non-borrowing spouse must be properly identified at closing and meet HUD’s eligibility requirements at that time.
- The home must continue to be the non-borrowing spouse’s primary residence.
- The non-borrowing spouse must continue paying property taxes, homeowners insurance, and maintaining the property.
- The non-borrowing spouse must establish legal ownership or the legal right to remain in the home within a specified timeframe after the borrower’s death.
The trade-off: during the deferral period, the non-borrowing spouse cannot access additional reverse mortgage proceeds. Any remaining line of credit or scheduled payments stop. The spouse can live in the home, but the loan does not provide further cash flow.
The age of an eligible non-borrowing spouse is now used in the actuarial calculation that determines how much you can borrow, which generally means a smaller loan amount when one spouse is meaningfully younger. We walk through this trade-off with couples in detail during the consultation.
What Are My Borrowing Options?
HECM borrowers can choose from five payout structures, depending on which payment plan fits your situation best:
- Lump sum. Receive all available proceeds at closing, generally at a fixed interest rate. Common for borrowers who have a specific large need (paying off an existing mortgage, funding a renovation, paying off high-interest debt).
- Line of credit. Access funds as needed, with a growing line of credit (unused balance grows at the same rate as the loan rate). Often the most powerful long-term retirement planning option because the available credit increases over time.
- Term payments. Equal monthly payments for a specific number of years you choose.
- Tenure payments. Equal monthly payments for as long as you live in the home as your primary residence.
- Modified term or tenure. Combine a line of credit with term or tenure payments — useful when you want both monthly cash flow and a reserve for future needs.
The right structure depends on your cash flow needs, your tax situation, your other retirement income, and your long-term goals for the home. There is no single best option — it depends on your situation.
What About Reverse Mortgage Scams?
Unfortunately, reverse mortgages have been a target for scams aimed at seniors. The basic rules to protect yourself:
- Never agree to a reverse mortgage on an unsolicited call. Legitimate lenders do not cold-call seniors with reverse mortgage offers.
- Never share financial information with contacts you did not initiate. If you did not call them, do not trust them with bank account numbers, Social Security numbers, or personal financial details.
- Information about reverse mortgages should always be free. Counseling fees are paid to HUD-approved counseling agencies (typically $125 to $200), not to lenders or salespeople. There should be no upfront fees to evaluate whether a reverse mortgage is right for you.
- Always work with a licensed, HUD-approved lender. Verify NMLS numbers at nmlsconsumeraccess.org. John Thomas is NMLS #38783.
- Get everything in writing, with a verifiable physical address and phone number. If a salesperson is reluctant to give you written documentation or refuses to identify their company’s physical office, that is a red flag.
- Be cautious of “free home” or “no cost” pitches. Reverse mortgages have closing costs — anyone telling you otherwise is either misinformed or misleading you.
Common Reverse Mortgage Myths — Debunked
- Myth: “The bank takes my home.” Reality: You keep title to your home throughout the life of the loan. The bank holds a mortgage lien (just like with a forward mortgage), but you remain the owner.
- Myth: “I can owe more than my home is worth and my heirs will inherit the debt.” Reality: HECM is a non-recourse loan backed by FHA insurance. Neither you nor your heirs can be required to pay more than the home is worth at repayment.
- Myth: “I lose my home if I move into assisted living.” Reality: The loan only becomes due if you permanently move out (typically defined as 12 consecutive months not living in the home as your primary residence). Temporary stays in hospitals, rehab, or short-term assisted living do not trigger repayment.
- Myth: “Reverse mortgages are taxed as income.” Reality: Proceeds are loan proceeds, not income, and are generally not subject to federal income tax. They may, however, affect Medicaid or SSI eligibility — consult your tax advisor or financial planner.
- Myth: “I cannot leave my home to my children.” Reality: You can. Your heirs can pay off the loan (typically by selling the home or refinancing) and keep any remaining equity, or they can deed the property back to the lender if it does not work out — HECM’s non-recourse protection means they walk away with no further obligation.
- Myth: “Only people in financial trouble use reverse mortgages.” Reality: Modern HECM strategy increasingly includes financial planners using the growing line of credit as a retirement risk-management tool — preserving investment portfolios during market downturns by drawing from the HECM line instead. Used strategically, it can be a planning tool, not just a last resort.
Types of Reverse Mortgages Available in Delaware and Maryland
Most Delaware and Maryland borrowers use one of these reverse mortgage types:
- HECM (Home Equity Conversion Mortgage). The standard FHA-insured reverse mortgage. Most common type by a wide margin and what most Delaware and Maryland 62+ homeowners use.
- HECM for Purchase (H4P). A reverse mortgage used to buy a new primary residence. Lets buyers age 62+ purchase a new home with a significant down payment from their own funds, financing the rest with a HECM that has no required monthly mortgage payment. Common for downsizing or relocating closer to family.
- HECM-to-HECM Refinance. Replacing an existing reverse mortgage with a new one — useful when home values have appreciated, when rates have moved favorably, when you want to add a borrower to the loan, or when you want to adjust the interest rate structure. Whether refinancing makes sense depends on appreciation, rate environment, and program guidelines at the time of refinance.
- Proprietary “Jumbo” Reverse Mortgages. Non-FHA reverse mortgages for higher-value homes that exceed the HECM maximum claim amount of $1,249,125. Available through select investors. Terms, costs, and consumer protections differ from FHA HECM — we walk through these differences carefully if your home value puts you in this range. Jumbo reverse mortgages can be especially relevant for Delaware beach properties in Lewes, Rehoboth Beach, and Bethany Beach where higher-end values regularly exceed the FHA cap, and for Maryland higher-value markets such as Bethesda, Potomac, and Annapolis waterfront. Eligibility, available loan amounts, and rate structures vary meaningfully by investor and by property — every jumbo HECM situation gets compared against the FHA HECM math before any recommendation.
- Single-Purpose Reverse Mortgages. Offered in some areas by state or local agencies or nonprofits for a specific purpose (typically property taxes or home repairs). Limited availability in Delaware and Maryland.
HECM for Purchase: Buying a New Home With a Reverse Mortgage
One of the most underused options is HECM for Purchase (H4P) — using a reverse mortgage to buy a new primary residence. This is increasingly common among Delaware and Maryland homeowners who want to downsize, relocate closer to family or grandchildren, or move to a single-story home better suited to aging in place.
Here is how it generally works: you provide a meaningful down payment from your own funds (typically 45% to 65% of the new home’s price, depending on age and current rates), and the HECM finances the rest. There is no required monthly mortgage payment on the HECM portion. You can use proceeds from the sale of your current home, retirement savings, or other liquid assets to fund the down payment.
HECM for Purchase works well when:
- You are 62+ and want to relocate to a different home (downsizing, moving closer to family, moving to a more accessible single-story property)
- You have substantial equity in your current home you can apply to the new home’s down payment
- You want to avoid taking on a new monthly mortgage payment in retirement
- You want to preserve cash and investments for other retirement needs while still buying the right home for the next chapter
The same HUD counseling, financial assessment, and primary residence requirements apply. The new home must close within 60 days of HECM application in most cases, so we plan the timeline carefully — coordinating the sale of your current home with the purchase of the new one.
When Reverse Mortgage Is NOT a Good Fit
A reverse mortgage solves real problems for some Delaware and Maryland homeowners — but it is the wrong tool in other situations. Here are the scenarios where we typically recommend against a reverse mortgage and point to a better alternative:
1. You plan to move within a few years. If you expect to sell or move within 3 to 5 years, the upfront FHA MIP and origination costs are unlikely to be recovered through the benefit period. A short-term move is generally a better fit for a HELOC, a cash-out refinance, or simply selling the home and downsizing.
2. You want to leave the home to heirs free and clear. A reverse mortgage balance grows over time as interest and MIP accrue, which reduces the equity left to heirs. If maximizing inheritance is your priority and you do not need the cash, a reverse mortgage is generally the wrong choice. Consider a HELOC as a backup line you may not draw from, or simply skip equity-tap financing entirely.
3. You cannot reliably maintain property taxes, homeowners insurance, and home upkeep. If the HUD financial assessment identifies concerns about your ability to keep up with these obligations and a Life Expectancy Set-Aside (LESA) cannot cover the gap, a reverse mortgage may not be approvable, and even if it is, it may not be the right fit. The risk of default is real if those obligations are not maintained.
4. Your home value is too low for meaningful net proceeds. After paying off any existing mortgage, FHA upfront MIP, origination fee, and third-party closing costs, the remaining proceeds on a lower-value home with significant existing mortgage debt may not be enough to materially improve your situation. We run the actual numbers in the consultation so you can see this before spending a counseling fee.
5. You have enough retirement income and home equity is your last-resort fallback. If your Social Security, pension, and retirement accounts comfortably cover your needs, leaving home equity untapped (or holding a HELOC as standby liquidity) is generally a more flexible position than committing to a reverse mortgage you may not need.
6. You qualify for a strong forward mortgage refinance instead. If you are under 62 (or married to a spouse under 62 with a meaningful age gap), or if you have steady retirement income and good credit, a cash-out refinance at a competitive rate may be a better long-term tool than a reverse mortgage. The trade-off is monthly payments — but the cost structure is generally lower.
If any of these scenarios fit, we say so directly and point you to the right alternative. Education-first means honest answers, even when the honest answer is “this is not the right loan for you.”
Serving Delaware and Maryland Homeowners
John Thomas (NMLS #38783) is a licensed mortgage loan officer based at the Primary Residential Mortgage office at 248 E Chestnut Hill Rd, Newark, DE 19713, serving Delaware and Maryland homeowners with over 20 years of experience in residential mortgage lending. Reverse mortgages are a specialty area within that practice.
We work with homeowners throughout:
- Delaware: Wilmington, Newark, Bear, Middletown, Hockessin, Pike Creek, Glasgow, New Castle, Dover, Smyrna, Milford, Lewes, Rehoboth Beach, and surrounding communities across New Castle County, Kent County, and Sussex County
- Maryland: Baltimore, Columbia, Silver Spring, Annapolis, Ellicott City, Towson, and surrounding areas across Baltimore County, Howard County, Anne Arundel County, and Montgomery County
Local market knowledge matters more on reverse mortgages than on most loan products. Property values, the FHA appraisal process, county recording, and local title and attorney closing customs all play into the timeline and the math. Working with a loan officer who understands both Delaware and Maryland markets — and who has a physical Newark office you can sit down in — is meaningfully different from a national 800-number reverse mortgage shop.
How to Get a Reverse Mortgage: Step-by-Step
- Initial consultation. Call John Thomas at 302-703-0727 or schedule online. We discuss your situation, run a preliminary estimate based on your age and home value, and answer your questions. No commitment.
- HUD-approved counseling. Required by federal law before you can apply. Typically 60 to 90 minutes by phone with a HUD-approved counseling agency. Fee is usually $125 to $200, paid directly to the agency. You receive a counseling certificate that must be submitted with your application.
- Application. We complete the formal HECM application together. You provide standard documentation (ID, Social Security verification, homeowners insurance declarations, current mortgage statement if applicable, property tax records).
- FHA appraisal. An FHA-approved appraiser determines your home’s current value. If repairs are required to meet FHA minimum property standards, those need to be completed before closing (or, in some cases, set aside from proceeds).
- Underwriting and HUD financial assessment. The lender reviews your credit history and income/asset documentation to confirm you can maintain property taxes, homeowners insurance, and home upkeep going forward.
- Closing. Most HECM loans close within 30 to 60 days from application, depending on appraisal scheduling, counseling completion, and any property or title issues.
- Funding. After a 3-day right of rescission period (which applies to refinances on a primary residence), funds are disbursed according to your chosen payout structure — lump sum, line of credit, monthly payments, or a combination.
Why Homeowners Trust John Thomas for Reverse Mortgages
John R. Thomas | NMLS #38783 | Branch Manager and Mortgage Loan Officer | Primary Residential Mortgage, Inc.
Choosing a reverse mortgage is a major financial decision. You deserve clear guidance from someone who understands both the loan and your long-term financial picture — not a sales pitch.
- 20+ Years of Delaware Mortgage Experience helping homeowners across Delaware and Maryland
- Top 1% of Mortgage Originators Nationwide — Mortgage Executive Magazine
- Top 400 Loan Originators Nationally — National Mortgage News
- Certified Mortgage Planner (CMP) — focused on long-term strategy, not just the next transaction
- Local Newark, DE Office — actual physical location at 248 E Chestnut Hill Rd, not a national 800-number call center
- Specialist in Reverse Mortgages (HECM Loans) — including HECM for Purchase and HECM-to-HECM refinance strategies
Homeowners across Wilmington, Newark, Dover, Baltimore, Columbia, and Silver Spring trust John Thomas for clear, honest reverse mortgage guidance tailored to their situation. Every conversation is education-first — helping you compare your options, understand long-term impact, and make the right decision for your retirement goals. No pressure. No sales tactics. Just clear guidance based on your situation.

Ready to Find Out If a Reverse Mortgage Makes Sense for You?
Every situation is different. The only way to know whether a reverse mortgage is right for you is to run the actual numbers based on your age, home value, current rates, retirement goals, and family situation. A no-pressure consultation costs you nothing and gives you real answers.
In a 30-minute conversation, we walk through:
- Approximately how much you may be eligible to access based on your age and home value
- How a HECM compares to a HELOC, a cash-out refinance, or selling your home
- What the long-term equity impact looks like for your heirs
- Whether HECM for Purchase might be a better fit if you are considering moving
- What the actual costs look like in dollars, not percentages

Frequently Asked Questions — Reverse Mortgages in Delaware and Maryland
What is a reverse mortgage?
A reverse mortgage is a federally insured HECM loan that allows homeowners age 62 and older to convert a portion of home equity into tax-free cash without making monthly mortgage payments. The borrower keeps title to the home, and the loan is repaid when the home is sold, the last borrower moves out permanently, or passes away. The 2026 HECM maximum claim amount is $1,249,125 nationwide.
How does a reverse mortgage work in Delaware and Maryland?
A reverse mortgage in Delaware and Maryland works the same way as anywhere else under federal HUD guidelines. Eligible homeowners age 62 or older borrow against home equity. The lender pays the borrower (as a lump sum, line of credit, monthly payments, or combination), and the loan balance grows over time as interest and FHA mortgage insurance premium accrue. Repayment is required when the last borrower sells the home, permanently moves out, or passes away. Borrowers must continue paying property taxes, homeowners insurance, and basic home maintenance.
Who qualifies for a reverse mortgage in Delaware?
To qualify for a HECM reverse mortgage in Delaware, you must be at least 62 years old, occupy the home as your primary residence, have sufficient home equity (typically 50 percent or more), complete HUD-approved counseling, and pass a HUD financial assessment confirming you can maintain property taxes, homeowners insurance, and home upkeep. The same federal HUD requirements apply in Maryland.
How much money can I get from a reverse mortgage?
The amount you can receive from a reverse mortgage depends on the youngest borrower’s age, current interest rates, your home’s appraised value (up to the 2026 HECM cap of $1,249,125), and your chosen payout structure. Typical proceeds range from approximately 40 percent to 60 percent of home value. For a Delaware or Maryland borrower in their early 70s with a $500,000 home, available proceeds often land in the $200,000 to $300,000 range, though the exact number varies meaningfully with rates and age.
Do I lose ownership of my home with a reverse mortgage?
No. With a reverse mortgage, you keep title and ownership of your home for as long as you live in it as your primary residence. The lender places a mortgage lien on the home (similar to a forward mortgage), but you remain the legal owner. You can sell the home, refinance, or leave it to heirs at any time.
What happens to a reverse mortgage when I pass away?
When the last borrower on the reverse mortgage passes away, the loan becomes due and payable. Heirs typically have up to 12 months (with potential extensions) to settle the loan. They have three options: sell the home and pay off the loan (keeping any remaining equity), refinance the loan to keep the home, or deed the home back to the lender. Because HECM is non-recourse, heirs cannot owe more than the home is worth.
Can my spouse stay in the home if I die first?
If your spouse is an eligible non-borrowing spouse under HUD Mortgagee Letters 2014-07 and 2015-15, they may be able to defer repayment of the loan and remain in the home after the borrowing spouse passes away, subject to meeting HUD deferral conditions. The non-borrowing spouse must continue paying property taxes, homeowners insurance, and maintaining the home as their primary residence. During the deferral period, no additional reverse mortgage proceeds can be accessed.
What is the 2026 reverse mortgage loan limit?
The 2026 HECM maximum claim amount is $1,249,125 nationwide for FHA case numbers assigned on or after January 1, 2026. This applies to all Delaware and Maryland counties — unlike forward FHA loan limits, the HECM limit is one consistent national cap. For homes valued above this amount, proprietary jumbo reverse mortgage products may be available. See the dedicated 2026 HECM reverse mortgage loan limits page for detail.
How much does a reverse mortgage cost?
Reverse mortgage costs include an upfront FHA mortgage insurance premium of 2 percent of home value (or the HECM cap, whichever is lower), an origination fee capped at $6,000, annual FHA MIP of 0.5 percent accruing on the loan balance, third-party closing costs (FHA appraisal, title, recording, credit report), a HUD-approved counseling fee of $125 to $200, and interest that accrues on the outstanding balance. Most costs are financed into the loan, so out-of-pocket cash at closing is generally minimal beyond the counseling fee.
Can I leave my home to my children with a reverse mortgage?
Yes. With a reverse mortgage, you keep ownership and can leave the home to your children. When the loan becomes due, your heirs can pay off the balance by selling the home (and keep any remaining equity), refinance the reverse mortgage into a traditional forward mortgage, or use other funds to pay off the loan. If the loan balance exceeds the home’s value, heirs can deed the home back to the lender with no further obligation, since HECM is a non-recourse loan.
What is HECM for Purchase (H4P)?
HECM for Purchase, or H4P, is a reverse mortgage used to buy a new primary residence. It allows buyers age 62 and older to purchase a new home with a significant down payment from their own funds (typically 45 percent to 65 percent of the new home’s price), financing the rest with a HECM that has no required monthly mortgage payment. HECM for Purchase is common among Delaware and Maryland homeowners who want to downsize, relocate closer to family, or move to a single-story home better suited to aging in place.
Are reverse mortgages safe?
FHA-insured HECM reverse mortgages are heavily regulated by HUD and have substantial consumer protections, including the non-recourse guarantee, mandatory HUD-approved counseling before application, a HUD financial assessment, and FHA insurance backing. Like any major financial decision, the right answer depends on your situation — but the HECM program is not inherently risky when used appropriately. Most reverse mortgage scams involve unsolicited contacts and unlicensed actors, not the HECM loan product itself. Always work with a licensed lender and verify NMLS numbers at nmlsconsumeraccess.org.
Are reverse mortgage proceeds taxable?
Reverse mortgage proceeds are loan proceeds, not income, and are generally not subject to federal income tax. However, they may affect eligibility for needs-based government benefits like Medicaid or Supplemental Security Income (SSI). Consult a tax advisor or financial planner before deciding, particularly if you receive needs-based benefits or have complex tax planning needs.
Can I get a reverse mortgage on a Delaware condo?
Yes, if the condominium project is FHA-approved or qualifies for FHA single-unit approval. The condo must be on HUD’s FHA-approved condominium list at the time of application. If it is not currently approved, single-unit approval may be available depending on the project’s financial health, owner-occupancy ratio, and reserves. We check FHA approval status before you commit to any application work — that way you know upfront whether your specific condo qualifies for HECM in Delaware.
What happens to my reverse mortgage if I need to move to assisted living?
A reverse mortgage becomes due and payable when the last borrower on the loan permanently moves out of the home, which HUD generally defines as 12 consecutive months not living in the home as your primary residence. Temporary stays in hospitals, rehabilitation, or short-term assisted living do not trigger repayment. If you move to assisted living permanently, you (or your family) typically have time to sell the home, refinance, or settle the loan. Heirs cannot be required to pay more than the home is worth because HECM is non-recourse.
How do I apply for a reverse mortgage in Delaware or Maryland?
To apply for a reverse mortgage in Delaware or Maryland, start with a no-pressure consultation with John Thomas at Primary Residential Mortgage in Newark, DE (302-703-0727 or schedule.johnthomasteam.com). The general process: initial consultation, HUD-approved counseling (federally required, and required under Delaware Code Title 5 § 2244 before a Delaware lender can finalize the loan), formal application, FHA appraisal, underwriting and financial assessment, and closing. Most HECM loans close within 30 to 60 days. The 2026 HECM maximum claim amount is $1,249,125.
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Last Updated: May 13, 2026 | Reviewed by: John R. Thomas, NMLS #38783, Branch Manager and Mortgage Loan Officer
All numbers and program details verified against HUD, FHA, NRMLA, and CFPB sources on the date above.
John R. Thomas
Branch Manager and Mortgage Loan Officer | NMLS #38783
John R. Thomas is Branch Manager and Mortgage Loan Officer at Primary Residential Mortgage, Inc., based at 248 E Chestnut Hill Rd, Newark, DE 19713. With more than 20 years of experience in residential mortgage lending, John has helped over 3,000 Delaware and Maryland buyers, homeowners, and retirees finance, refinance, and tap home equity — including specialty work in FHA-insured HECM reverse mortgages for homeowners age 62 and older. John is licensed across 17 states and is the author of Your Guide to Buying Your First Home in Delaware (ISBN 0557349826).
John holds a Bachelor of Science in Physics Education from the University of Delaware and a Master of Science in Curriculum and Instruction from Delaware State University. His teaching background shapes an education-first approach to lending — explaining mortgage products clearly so borrowers can make confident, informed decisions about their financial future, especially on complex products like reverse mortgages where the long-term implications matter as much as the upfront math.
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Related Resources From John Thomas
Related cluster pages:
- 2026 HECM Reverse Mortgage Loan Limits — full breakdown of the $1,249,125 cap and what it means by age and home value
- Delaware HELOC and Home Equity Loan — alternative for homeowners under 62 or those wanting flexible repayment
- Delaware FHA Loans — full FHA program guide including FHA cash-out refinance options
- Delaware Conventional Loans — conventional refinance and cash-out alternatives
- Meet John Thomas, Delaware Mortgage Loan Officer — full background, credentials, and reviews
- Your Guide to Buying Your First Home in Delaware — John’s published book (ISBN 0557349826)
Verified data sources cited in this guide:
- HUD Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM) Program — official program overview, eligibility, counseling requirements
- National Reverse Mortgage Lenders Association (NRMLA) — industry statistics, HECM endorsement chart
- CFPB: What is a reverse mortgage? — consumer-facing federal guidance
- NMLS Consumer Access — verify John Thomas’s licensing (NMLS #38783)
- HUD Mortgagee Letter 2014-22 — HECM financial assessment requirements
- HUD Mortgagee Letter 2015-15 — non-borrowing spouse deferral provisions
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